hey everyone im in need of a bit of advice about my relationship. i am 23 and married to a moroccan man, we have been married for 3 years not and everything was fine to begin with but now i am at a point where i dont know what to do. ill start at the begining. we met in spain and i then went back out there once for 3 months and then again for 6 months, in this time we got married. i then returned to the uk and waited for a visa for him to come and join me, when he got his visa he came but wasnt happy living in england so a month later we decied to come to belgium i wasnt too keen but said i would go. we have been here 2 years now and i am hating it so we are going to return to england, first me then he will join some months later, thing is im not sure if i want him to. he has a cousin here and has made a lot of friend but i have had problems as i dont speak the language i have some friends that i work with but we are all living in different parts. any way he just doesnt seem to care about me, he is always with his friends, i mean always, sometimes from 10 in the morning untill 2 am the next morning, and while he is out having fun i am stuck at home alone, we have different days off because of our work but every day he has a couple of hours free in the afternoon but still he goes to see his friends, he just doesnt understand that i need time with him too. i am alone in a country that i dont like to be with him. i wouldnt mind him spending time with his friend if he gave me time too but he always chooses them. he tells me that all moroccan men are like this, is this true?? i love him but he is hurting me too much, i know i should probaly leave but i am torn, dont know what to do//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-advice-44-2437218-2437218.html#msg-2437218 Sat, 06 Jun 2026 05:15:40 +0200 Phorum 5.2.15