Salam Alaykum and Ramadan Moubarak !!I have a question for you guys ! And please try to be honest with me !I am getting married inshallah in a few months. So my fiancé and I .. we are in the middle of THE ULTIMATE furniture and cookware war !! It is stressful, but funny! I am kind of exploring him! ok ok .. I will be brief!We had a discussion about whether buy SOFA or SEDARI ... I know it is soo silly ! He says, we better not buy a sofa, cause if someone will come to visit us, he will have nowhere to sleep ! But I am against that !It is an 8 inch square appartement and I have to think about guests ! Most of us, we have in our homes (fe lbelad) sitting rooms that we've never used. In my parents home, we have "Sala" that we didn't use since my sister's birth .. 17years ago !! and I am against that! [b]Am I being selfish ???[/b] I just think it is totally absurd to live "permanently" for others ... And spend money on things that I will use once in a while ! I hate clutter and I am no rich !I think it isn't the right msgboard ... But I do miss english :P And I have RESPECT for your opinions guys !!!Salam//en.yabiladi.com/topics/stupid--silly-question-44-2688971-2688971.html#msg-2688971 Sat, 06 Jun 2026 03:20:58 +0200 Phorum 5.2.15