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version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"> <channel><title>Need some clarity please</title> <description> I live in Tennessee,  USA. I met this wonderful Moroccan man that simply put I adored from the start. He is so sweet to my boys and for the most part very kind to me as well. We started dating and spending at least one day off a week from work together. I fell in love with him and he said he was in love with me too. My boys adore him and love having him around.  He was teaching my youngest son to play soccer and would attend some of my son's games. When my son won a trophy with his soccer,  my boyfriend prosit told everyone his stepson won a trophy. My son was being with pride.  I stayed imaging a possible future with him and even went to a local Mosque with a Muslim couple  (who were my friends before I met my boyfriend). I really enjoyed it as did my boys.  The people were so nice and invited my children and myself back.  I genuinely felt welcomed. I started reading the Quran, as I am Catholic it seemed very much like how I was raised to believe with a few differences.  I am very intrigued with what I read and shared it with my children.  They were very curious as well and wanted to be able to connect with my boyfriend better too. Then two days later my boyfriend broke up with me. Saying that he has no choice.  He said that his mom is very sick and told him that if he isn't going to marry me then he needs to break up with me.  He said she told him that if he doesn't break up with me then she would never speak to him again and that if she dies he is not allowed to ask about her.  It shattered my heart and broke my youngest son's heart as well.  My Muslim friend told me not to worry, that he'll contact me in 3 weeks when Ramadan has past and want me back because I'm a super nice person and always do my best to please him. I want to believe her but he has deleted me from Facebook and it seems like he's trying to completely erase me from his life.  I truly love him and just wish I was good enough for him. I guess my real question is,  how a Moroccan man can confess that he loves you and then erase you like you never existed?</description><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826771.html#msg-7826771</link> <lastBuildDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2026 16:15:34 +0200</lastBuildDate> <generator>Phorum 5.2.15</generator> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7832186.html#msg-7832186</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7832186.html#msg-7832186</link> <description><![CDATA[ I'm really sorry to learn about what you have experienced.
In our culture , we need support and green light from our parents when we decide to marry someone. That respect is like the corner stone around whom everything settles down in our...]]></description> <dc:creator>❤Mini Momy❤</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Wed, 15 Jun 2016 15:06:12 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7829249.html#msg-7829249</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7829249.html#msg-7829249</link> <description><![CDATA[ Ok then, but i'm still not getting the point, I have my lil idea (she maybe wants a Muslim woman for her boy....not so sure after all).
You quote : &quot;It's just hard to know that I must have meant so little to him to discard our...]]></description> <dc:creator>Northern</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2016 05:36:50 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7829219.html#msg-7829219</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7829219.html#msg-7829219</link> <description><![CDATA[ He broke it off with me because his mother told him to.  He said that she told him that if he did not then she would no longer speak to him and that he would not be allowed to ask about her.  Please before toy judge him,  know that he is a really...]]></description> <dc:creator>Irisheyes</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Tue, 14 Jun 2016 03:39:35 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7827601.html#msg-7827601</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7827601.html#msg-7827601</link> <description><![CDATA[ Hi there
Sorry to interrupt but I'm lil bit confused here. Could you tell us why did he broke up with ya?
Seems like you didn't mention why he broke up and dafuq is wrong with him, really.
Just asking, no offense meant.]]></description> <dc:creator>Northern</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 13:09:35 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7827404.html#msg-7827404</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7827404.html#msg-7827404</link> <description><![CDATA[ Hi,
I myself had this problem with my family. I found a girl that I connected to. My sister with all her best intentions was against the idea of me marrying that girl, saying that she wasn't good for me and so on.. Of course I did what is...]]></description> <dc:creator>Kanda sharafi</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 11:24:01 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826938.html#msg-7826938</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826938.html#msg-7826938</link> <description><![CDATA[ The best  thing  to do  definitely.
You're welcome , May God  bless  you  and  your child  too]]></description> <dc:creator>Kim Patachian</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 01:26:45 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826908.html#msg-7826908</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826908.html#msg-7826908</link> <description><![CDATA[ Kim,
Thank you again.  It is easier to say than do.  I will wait and see if he contacts me and if he doesn't then I'll hurt for a little while.  And then I'll pick myself up, smile, and move on.
May God bless you and yours]]></description> <dc:creator>Irisheyes</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 01:10:08 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826897.html#msg-7826897</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826897.html#msg-7826897</link> <description><![CDATA[ Soult,
Thank you for your words of wisdom.  I would love to say I'm strong enough to say no to him if he came back,  but as I'm an honest person I can't do that.  The wound is to fresh.  Maybe in a few weeks I'll be strong enough but right now I...]]></description> <dc:creator>Irisheyes</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 01:06:34 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826885.html#msg-7826885</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826885.html#msg-7826885</link> <description><![CDATA[ Hello,
As Patachian said, mothers are extremely influent in the moroccan community for a man (even after mariage). And unfortunately, sons often choose their mother over their wife.
If he's already erased you from his life move on and...]]></description> <dc:creator>soult</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 00:59:33 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826871.html#msg-7826871</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826871.html#msg-7826871</link> <description><![CDATA[ I totally  agree  with  you, you gave  the  right definition of  love. He  seems  to share  the  same opinion, he was  completely  lovable  with  your child. But they  suffer  now  that  makes  me very  sad  for  them.
A muslim  man  is ...]]></description> <dc:creator>Kim Patachian</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 00:52:44 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826844.html#msg-7826844</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826844.html#msg-7826844</link> <description><![CDATA[ Kim,
Thank you and may God be with you as well.  I would never ask him to sacrifice his religion,  family,  or anything for me.  I love him and all that he is.  I would never wish to change him.  I just want to be a part of his world as I have...]]></description> <dc:creator>Irisheyes</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 00:37:34 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826815.html#msg-7826815</guid><title>Re: Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771-7826815.html#msg-7826815</link> <description><![CDATA[ Hi,
I apologize  for my approximate english, I'm  a french woman with  maghreb roots.
Mother's opinion  could  be very  important  for a man in Morocco. It's  clearly kind  of  blackmail, if he does  not  stop  your  relationship she...]]></description> <dc:creator>Kim Patachian</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 00:26:33 +0200</pubDate> </item> <item> <guid>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771.html</guid><title>Need some clarity please</title><link>//en.yabiladi.com/topics/need-some-clarity-please-44-7826771.html</link> <description><![CDATA[ I live in Tennessee,  USA. I met this wonderful Moroccan man that simply put I adored from the start. He is so sweet to my boys and for the most part very kind to me as well. We started dating and spending at least one day off a week from work...]]></description> <dc:creator>Irisheyes</dc:creator> <category>Morocco # English board</category> <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jun 2016 00:08:46 +0200</pubDate> </item> </channel> </rss>