Quote
Hicham_A
I do agree with you that women should dress and behave typically, i think also that elegance, as you described it, is very important keeping in mind that there are deeper considerations....
Quote
adds
Here I come sticking my ors in as usual.
The terms lady and gentleman is connected mainly to the upper class of British society, the American just copied it but this is another story.
This class of people distinguish themselves from the rest of the nation by the way they speak, dress, behave and conduct themselves in their daily dealing with others. This group believe in demanding (through inheritance, status, wealth etc) respect from others and not earning it. They sneer and look down on the layman ordinary common people. Generally speaking these people can be difficult to deal, live with unless you are from the same class.
Now how this does relates to our society back home? Well, it doesn’t.
The ladies, those days had less freedom, majority weren’t educated (and still), didn’t have much destructions, they didn’t expect much just from home to another (arranged marriages)…Man were shy, inexperienced, majority uneducated (and till), chauvinists and very dominants.
Elegance, is a behaviour that is learnt and acquired during the upbringing not inherent in the individual (sucking the thumb is inherent in Human).
Having some manners of courtesy, responding relatively in the correct manner during a dialogue, dealing tactfully with people at all levels and most of all having some sense of humour is the best way in my opinion and experience to attract the attention of the opposite sex.
The attraction happens naturally without courting (talwate); nowadays the equality and women freedom does encourage the reduction of this phenomenon but for those less fortunate Men; it encourages the animal behaviour hence dressing strangely, rape, vulgar language etc ..
Quote
Sweetlatifa
HI Adds,
I don't fellow you...
What do you mean?
Hi there
which part dear?
Quote
adds
Here I come sticking my ors in as usual.
The terms lady and gentleman is connected mainly to the upper class of British society, the American just copied it but this is another story.
This class of people distinguish themselves from the rest of the nation by the way they speak, dress, behave and conduct themselves in their daily dealing with others. This group believe in demanding (through inheritance, status, wealth etc) respect from others and not earning it. They sneer and look down on the layman ordinary common people. Generally speaking these people can be difficult to deal, live with unless you are from the same class.
Now how this does relates to our society back home? Well, it doesn’t.
The ladies, those days had less freedom, majority weren’t educated (and still), didn’t have much destructions, they didn’t expect much just from home to another (arranged marriages)…Man were shy, inexperienced, majority uneducated (and till), chauvinists and very dominants.
Elegance, is a behaviour that is learnt and acquired during the upbringing not inherent in the individual (sucking the thumb is inherent in Human).
Having some manners of courtesy, responding relatively in the correct manner during a dialogue, dealing tactfully with people at all levels and most of all having some sense of humour is the best way in my opinion and experience to attract the attention of the opposite sex.
The attraction happens naturally without courting (talwate); nowadays the equality and women freedom does encourage the reduction of this phenomenon but for those less fortunate Men; it encourages the animal behaviour hence dressing strangely, rape, vulgar language etc ..
she also told me that her neighbour broke his wife s arm because she looked from the window when someone knocked on the door 
chargement...
